It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Peter Anthony (Tony) Wade on Sunday, September 13, 2015. Tony is survived by his loving wife, Joanna; his son, Alexander, daughter in law, Jacqui and grandchildren, Leopold and Winona of Sydney, Australia; his step-son, Kingsley Longman and daughter in law, Lyndsey and three grandchildren: Jack, Ruby and Matilda of Wodonga, Australia and sister, Penny Sargent and husband, John of the United Kingdom.
Tony was born in Belfast, Northern Ireland in 1947 to John and Isabel Wade and spent the first seven years in Belfast. He and Penny moved to Newcastle to live with their paternal grandparents. Eventually his academic and professional life led him to Australia in 1972. Once there, he established himself as an accountant and worked for the Ford Motor Company. In 1975, he moved from Ford to help create a new government agency called the Trade Union Training Authority in Melbourne and Wodonga. This new organization that was built from the ground up, served to fund statutory authority providing education and training programs for union officials. However, Tony’s most significant and defining career was that of Director of Programme, Budget and Evaluation for the Food and Agricultural Organization with the United Nations in Rome, Italy starting in 1981. He was an extremely gifted leader, blessed with remarkable organizational, administrative and negotiation skills. During his 25 years at the UN, he was the architect of budgetary systems, policies and procedures and information technology systems that laid down the foundation for effective departmental functioning for years to come. Tony earned the respect and admiration of everyone with whom he came into contact – his extreme intelligence, coupled with his acute sense of humour, was an unbeatable combination. It was in Rome that he met and married the love of his life, Joanna and along with their three Cavalier King Charles Spaniels, had 31 years of happiness.
In 2003, Tony was diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease, a condition that despite heroic efforts by many, many medical professionals, experts and scientists, he was unable to overcome. He and Joanna relocated to Canada in 2006 and over the last 10 years, Tony challenged the disease and the medical profession with his detailed research and investigations. Every treatment, medication and therapy was pursued with his characteristic intelligence and vigor. He and Joanna were bold and courageous beyond measure and true to form and he died with his elegant mind and dignity intact.
His family wish to extend heartfelt thanks to Tony’s devoted caregivers who lovingly tended to him over many years: Denise, Stephanie, Kym, Nikita, Amber, Annie, Tina and Dale – each and every one became part of his family as he battled the disease. By all who knew him, Tony will continue to be loved and remembered for the remarkable man he was.
A viewing is scheduled for Wednesday, September 16 from 6:30 to 8:00 p.m. at McCall’s Downtown, Johnson & Vancouver Streets. A service will be held on Thursday, September 17 at 11:00 a.m. in McCall’s Floral Chapel. Following the service and thanks to Jo and Peter Zambri, family and friends are invited to a reception at Zambri’s Restaurant: 820 Yates Street corner of Blanshard Ave. Donations in Tony’s memory would be appreciated to the Victoria Epilepsy and Parkinson’s Centre, Suite 202 – 1640 Oak Bay Ave, Victoria, B.C. V8R 1B2, Telephone: (250) 475-6677. Condolences may be offered to the family below.
McCall Bros. Funeral Home
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Joan
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David Renka Dear Joanna,
Thank you for letting me know about Tony. I remember him as being a very kind and gentle person and am sorry that such a person is no longer in this world. I am sorry too that the last years of his life were so compromised by his illness. Isn’t it incomprehensible and seemingly unfair how life can go? Though one who had you as a wife certainly had something very positive going on in his life. Several other friends my age have lost their husband to terrible diseases. On the other hand, I have a friend here who is in his late seventies. He is an ex-journalist and an illustrator and has recently published a book of scenes a Rome seen from its roofs and balconies and is now working on a new book. When I visit him I think how wonderful it must be to live like that and hope that when I am his age I will be that active and happy.
How are you doing now? When Tony died I am sure that you were surrounded by help and support, but as time moves on life returns to what passes for normal, except there is a big hole in it. And a feeling of relief that he can’t get any worse and is no longer suffering, mixed with loneliness. What are your plans for now? Will you remain in that area? When you have a moment do let me hear from you. All the best to you for finding serenity and some measure of happiness as your very changed life goes on.
Sincere affection,
David
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Giovanna Greco Cara Giovanna,
ho appreso della morte di Tony solo oggi.
Vogliamo offrirti le nostre piu’ sentite condoglianze.
Mi recordero’ sempre la simpatia di Tony ed il suo bel sorriso.Sei nelle nostre preghiere
Giovanna e Domenico
Ti ricordi di noi? ci ha presentato il simpaticone di Franco che anche lui ci ha lasciato l’anno scorso…
chiamami 250-474-5416
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Marie Gillougley Ercolani I have only just heard the news of Tony passing away after a long and courageous struggle. I have fond memories of you both during my years at FAO and especially of Tony who was always calm in a crisis (and there were many) but had a smile and a good word to say to everybody at all times. Please accept my condolences, Joana, at this sad time.
Marie
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Recel Fajardo-Jardine Dear Joanna,
Words cannot express my sadness over Tony’s passing. I think we would all hope for a good death and it sounds like Tony’s was peaceful with you beside him as he left this world. I have always admired the two of you together, you both had a sense of deep love and laughter together. I know that Tony’s lovely spirit will always be with you.My thoughts are with you, Recel
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Gillian Wilson Dear Joanna,
I was so sorry to hear about Tony’s passing. I only worked for him for a short time, but found him to be a lovely man, intelligent and a real gentleman. A rare breed, especially these days!
Thinking of you at this difficult time and sending you deepest sympathy.
Sincere condoleances,
Gillian
(Trisha’s Scottish heathen friend)
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Joanna Redekop (FAO) Dear Joanna,
Hearing Tony passed away prematurely saddened me — my deepest condolences to you and the family.
Tony was a remarkable man, very intelligent, a mix of strength and gentleness. I remember his expressive blue eyes and wit. You complemented each other and I’m so sorry these latter years brought such suffering to you both.
Just as you took loving care of him in this life, I am sure that he will oversee and protect you from aldilà.
A big hug. JoannaAl Di La (1961 song written by Italian composer Carlo Donida and lyrics Mogol)
Non credevo possibile,
Se potessero dire queste parole:Al di lá del bene più prezioso, ci sei tu.
Al di lá del sogno più ambizioso, ci sei tu.Al di lá delle cose più belle.
Al di lá delle stelle, ci sei tu.
Al di lá, ci sei tu per me, per me, soltanto per me.Al di lá del mare più profondo, ci sei tu.
Al di lá de i limiti del mondo, ci sei tu.
Al di lá della volta infinita, al di la della vita.
Ci sei tu, al di la, ci sei tu per me.
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Bridge Dear Joanna,
Dhan and I are extremely saddened to hear of Tony’s passing, and your loss of the love of your life.
We remember with fondest memories that we became acquainted within days of our arrival in Rome in 1983.
Tony lived a rich and full life combined with great generosity and integrity.
We grieve and pray with you .
Bridge.
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Vivienne, Joe, Kristen and Justin Fazio It was with great sadness that we received word of Tony’s passing.
What an accomplished life Tony lived. Filled with notable professional accomplishments, an abundance of family and a long and noteworthy list of friends who regarded him as a gentleman and quick witted fellow. It was always a pleasure to share in Tony’s company and I will fondly remember the many occasions we had the pleasure of celebrating side by side as the only two/three “Irishmen” in the midst of all those Italians!
May each passing thought you have of Tony bring a wave of peace to you; knowing that the life you devoted to each other was good and true and limitless. No time will remove the ache and void that will now occupy a place in your heart; however, with time I will pray that the ache will ease to a bearable tremble and the void will be nourished by the lifetime of wonderful memories you made together.
In all of our sadness, our sincerest condolences on the loss of your love,
Vivienne, Joe, Kristen and Justin
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Lucinda Dalton (FAO) Dear Joanna,
I am so so sorry to hear the sad news. I know you will miss him greatly and I hope you have people around you who will support and love you and give you big hugs when you need them.
Tony was a wonderful person and loved and respected by so many people – I am glad I had the chance to meet him and glad too that you were there with him through all the good and less good times.
A big hug and if ever you feel like coming to Rome please do let me know – maybe you Barbie and Adri could plan a trip together.
Lots of love
Lucinda xxxxxxx
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Giorgia Veneziani Cara Joanna,
Mi dispiace tanto di questa tristissima notizia .Eravate una coppia bellissima e un esempio per tutti noi,ci siete amati come credo poche coppie si amano…Sono sicura che lui sara’ sempre accanto a te anche se fisicamente non c’e’ piu’.
Un’abbraccio grande, Giorgia !!!
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Kay Hathway (Australia) Dear Joanna
Judy has let us know of Tony’s death and word is spreading around his Australian friends.
It must be a very sad time for you and you can be assured there are people feeling for you here in Australia. You have put in a momentous effort in caring for Tony over a long period. I think we sometimes forget what effect a serious and debilitating illness has on those who do the caring. Even if there’s help available, a diagnosis is usually a life changing event for all concerned. But I don’t need to tell you this, you know it only too well.
So I’m thinking of you today and hope that once you can come to grips with what’s happened, we might be able to see you again.
Very kind regards
Kay
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Anita Misri My dear Joanna,
I am so sorry to hear of Tony’s passing.
I am very sad for your loss. Tony was pretty incredible.
I love you lots. You are in my thoughts and prayers.Hugs,
Anita Misri
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Manoj Juneja (WFP) Dear Joanna
Poonam, Pia, Jai and I were devastated to learn about Tony’s passing. We so often fondly remember him for his humor and generosity. On my part, I can never forget him as his work and professional approach shapes my daily life at WFP.
We pray for you and his soul.
Manoj Juneja
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Anna Albertario (FAO) Dear Joanna,
I am so sorry to hear the sad news. Tony was a beautiful person much loved by everybody. I have always said one of the most intelligent persons I ever met in FAO. He stood out for his integrity, intelligence, kindness and humbleness.
We have all been lucky to have crossed his path. He has remained an example for many of us herein FAO. We will miss him.
I wish you all the best, my dear Joanna, and if you ever pass by Rome I would like to give you a big hug and a kiss as the ones I would like to give you now.
Grandi baci.
Anna Albertario
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Lorenza Zagarese (FAO) Dear Joanna,
What sad news. So many times I thought about you and the memories came back of when you were living in Monteverde. I missed you both when you left, your smile, your frankness. You are in my thoughts for what it can count in these moments. A big big hug to you. Peace and love to Tony.
I hope to see you in Rome.
Ciao
Lorenza
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Broucks Wright Dear Joanna,
He was loved by many and will be remembered. A very special man indeed. Too bad it had to end like it did but … he had a good run until Parkinson’s hit.Really hope to see you soon here in Rome.
Baci OOOO
Broucksy
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Terry Wade Hi Jo,
It is with much sadness that I write to you, having heard from Penny on Monday about Tony’s passing, I asked her to pass on my condolences. I would have written sooner but had lost all your contact details. Mine and Mary’s sympathies are with you all and I share your grief. I have never been very good at staying in touch with people, but have often thought about Tony and yourself in recent years and it will be forever a regret that I had not seen him again since 2007. Had I known how bad he was I would have found a way to visit. It can only be thought a blessing that he is no longer in any pain, though it is also so cruel that he has gone.
We shall be sending a donation in his memory to the Victoria Epilepsy and Parkinson’s Centre, I feel that Tony himself would consider it to be a better use of the money than flowers.
Once again my heartfelt sympathies are with you.
Terry
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Dr Hosny El Lakany Dear Joanna,
Very sad to hear the news of Tony’s passing. We will miss him as bright, honest professional and good friend. His fight in the last few years has been admired by everybody who knew him.
You also have played a heroic role caring for him, much to admirations of all friends and family. Our deep sympathy to you.
I am in Rome until Saturday and if you need anything from FAO, please let me know.
Hosny and El Lakany family.
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Greg MacDougall Dear Joanna,
This has caught me completely by surprise. I’m returning to Canada soon and will call you when I do. In the interim please accept my most sincere sympathy but profound admiration for your strength throughout.
Greg
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Tony Alonzi Dear Joanna,
I only heard about your sad loss through Boyd as I am now working in Budapest. I thought I’d drop you a line to offer my heartfelt condolences. Tony was not only a pillar of FAO but also a good human being. I have good memories of him, as will many others I imagine. They say nobody really dies as long as there is someone left behind who remembers them. In this respect, Tony will remain with us for many, many years.
Best wishes e corraggio.
Tony Alonzi (FAO)
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Maria Antonietta Sacconi Ciao Joanna,
Kay mi ha informata della triste notizia, sono veramente dispiaciuta e vorrei esprimerti tutta la mia sincera sympathy e partecipazione alla tua grande perdita. Ho sempre molto apprezzato nei tanti anni passati alla Fao la grande umanità e professionalità di Tony, la sua intelligenza e il senso dell’ironia e voglio ricordarlo così.Ti sono vicina con affetto, un grande abbraccio,
Love
Tata (FAO)
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Serge and Helen Nakouzi My dearest Joanna,
We were extremely saddened to learn this morning of Tony’s passing away. No words can possibly express how much we feel for you. The loss must be devastating for you all. He was certainly a most amazing person and will always be remembered in our prayers.
Our most profound condolences and sympathy to you and all the family. May his soul rest in peace.
Serge, Helen and Family
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Lillian Tomorad Dear Joanna,
My heart is broken. I would love to hug you, but I’m so far away that I could do it only in my mind.
I’m coming back on Saturday, so sad I’ll not be there to attend the services for our Tony. Please, be strong and know that you are much loved.Lillian Tomorad
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Sandra Wright Dear Joanna,
this is Sandra here. I was very distressed to learn of Tony’s passing and had been thinking about him a great deal lately. One of our daughters is currently living in New York and I had been dwelling on whether I should try to visit you two sometime, but sadly I will not be able to do that now. As you know Tony was my very favourite boss and colleague and we had such a good working and personal relationship. He was always so understanding and appreciative, always taking responsibility for everything that happened in the office and never “blaming the secretary”! What a lovely person he was. I know I am not alone in thinking that. So many retired staff members over the past few years have asked after him.
There is not much else one can say. I know you must be overwhelmed by sadness at this time and can only pray that in time happy memories will replace sad thoughts.
Perhaps one of these days you will feel up to visiting Rome again and should this happen, I would of course love to see you! In the meantime, this message comes to you with much love.
Sandra (FAO)
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Jeremy Turner Dear Joanna
I was so sad to hear about Tony.
He was a special man, and I admired him from afar, back in those days before I started to get to know him. I recall his performances in the FAO governing bodies, telling some of the recalcitrant delegates to sod off, which he did so firmly, diplomatically and nicely, but they got the point. And then later on, I got to know him better through you and Hélène, and I well remember our weekend up with you both in Tuscany. I feel had I got to know him better, we would have become friends but there wasn’t enough time for that. But I’ll maintain fond memories.You will have a large space to fill, and it won’t be easy I know. I just hope that the love of your friends and family will help you through this difficult time. But above all, you will always have Tony’s love with you, and that will never go away. You were a wonderful wife to him, and no-one could have done more.
Love,
Jeremy Turner (FAO)
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Jo Zambri This is the email Jo Zambri of Zambri’s Restaurant sent to her staff who knew & loved Tony.
It conveys how I felt about him and about Joanna.I have a cousin who I really didn’t know until the last 10 years. She moved to Rome when she was barely 20. She worked for the UN & met a man she fell madly in love with. They went through trials to be together but they persevered and spent the last 30 years together. He was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease about 12 years ago & they knew they couldn’t stay in Rome any longer as it is not an easy place for anyone not able bodied. He was an Irish born Australian so they spent time looking in Australia & Canada for places to move to. After researching & visiting places all over the globe they settled on Victoria and connected with me & Peter.
You all know I am talking about Joanna & Tony. Tony was dashing (do people still use that descriptive?), intelligent, funny (as in really smart-funny, witty & a bit obscene like any good Irish-Australian) & had something inexplicable about him that I think can only be described as a magnetism few people possess. It had nothing to do with physical looks but rather came from & radiated from deep inside of him.
He had soul! He loved food, wine, conversation, flirting, ideological debate and conversation. He was respectful to all but irreverent. He deeply loved his wife Joanna.As his Parkinson’s took away his ability to walk he kept a positive outlook. As it took away his precious ability to communicate he always smiled & kept his eyes looking forward. To watch Tony & Joanna together sharing everything from happiness to grief was a special thing. Yesterday he died. I have been on this planet for long enough to know that people die. I know many people who are no longer here but something about Tony leaving is an especially hard one to accept.
I am sending this as a kind of need to share & pass on that there are amazing people in this world who aren’t necessarily lauded by everyone but whose presence here impacted others deeply. Please, when you are going about your day today at some point can you honour Tony by telling someone you care about how much you love them.
Thanks
Jo (Victoria)
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Maria Grazia Quieti and Bob Sonnabend Dear Joanna,
Kay informed us about Tony’s passing.
I can only say that I have very fond memories of him. If you remember, I used to work in the then Policy Assistance Division and it was only when I worked with Kay for the World Food Summit of 1996 that I got to know Tony. I remember his witty remarks and his capacity to use irony and lighten the work atmosphere.
His warmth and affection will remain with you and will help you to go through this difficult period of your life.
Please let us know if ever you plan to come to Italy. Bob and I would be happy to meet you again.
With warmest regards,
Maria Grazia Quieti and Bob Sonnabend
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Loli et Bernard Jasinski Chère Joanna,
Hélène a appris la triste nouvelle du décès de Tony.
Nous sommes profondément attristés de la disparition de celui
qui a partagé ta vie et que tu as tant aimé. Nous nous souvenons
avec émotion des moments que nous avons partagés à Rome, via
Appia dans votre si agréable appartement, chez Hélène et plus tard
en France chez nous. Toi et Tony vous avez toujours su nous accueillir
avec tant de sympathie. Nous nous rappelons nos conversations toujours
passionnantes. Nous repensons à Tony grand amateur de bons vins et
surtout de Bordeaux.
Nous nous associons à ta grande peine et nous te prions de croire
à toutes nos meilleures pensées. Nous t’embrassons bien affectueusement.
Loli et Bernard
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Joy Kruger My wonderful friend, Tony Wade, died today. He was an inspiration, a man who never gave up, cared, was fun, a listener who gave good advice and had a great sense of humour, a man who was accomplished in so many things and who loved, who believed in the power of the heart, who was inclusive, interested, a trooper and a good friend to the end. Rest well, Tony. I miss you!!
Joy
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Carol & George Lawson Joanna, We are so sorry to hear of Tony’s passing. Since we first met you at the Parkinson’s Newcomers Meeting, we have spoken so highly of your positive attitude as you travelled the path of Parkinson’s disease.
George and I send you our heartfelt condolences.
Carol and George Lawson
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Fred and Janet Heim Dear Joanna,
We were so very sorry to hear of Tony’s passing and your loss. You took such good care of him. He was a wonderful person and a good friend during those years we worked together at FAO. He will not be forgotten but sorely missed by all who knew him. Our deepest condolence to you and family. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Fred and Janet Heim
De Land, Florida
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maryannevanarkadie no words Joanna, I miss you and Tony…he will always be on your shoulder…he’s an Aus…
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Minà e Giannicola Carissima Joanna,
Giannicola ed io siamo stati molto tristi nell’apprendere la scomparsa di Tony. Siamo felici di avervi rivisti anche se per un solo breve soleggiato pomeriggio a Victoria qualche anno fa. Tony mi é mancato in quesi anni e continuerá a mancarmi. E’ stato un mentore discreto, nel quotidiano, diventando per me un riferimento, per la sua gentilezza ed umanitá, passione, capacitá intellettuale, arguzia, esperienza, ed intelligenza politica e manageriale. Sono tanti gli spunti ed i ricordi che mi ha lasciato, ma ancora di piu é cio’ che ancora vado scoprendo dei sei intensi anni di lavoro insieme, spesso fino a notte fonda. Il suo senso dell’umorismo e l’accento stretto australiano da incubo per me appena arrivata alla FAO divennero presto un diletto. Tony rimarrá nei nostri pensieri.
Ti abbracciamo molto forte in questo momento difficile, e speriamo di vederci presto a Roma.
Sentite condoglianze,
Minà e Giannicola
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Yves Klompenhouwer Dear Joanna, our thoughts are with you at this trying moment. The Tony that I knew was a giant in FAO for his ceaseless commitment and incredible dedication and effectiveness. The organisation and myself and many others owe a lot to him. We remember him with great admiration. He was a friend, inspiration and a (hard to beat) example. Wish you and Tony’s other loved-ones strength and courage.
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Adam and Betta Becker (FA0) Dear Joanna,
I want you to know that Betta and I were so sorry to hear of Tony’s passing. This is also true of my daughter Nicole who remembers him too. And I specifically remember that I thought about Tony on the 11th. I don’t know why, he just came into my mind. I hadn’t thought about him in a while and I just wondered how he was doing.
Tony meant a great deal to me and I think of him as a friend and a mentor. Advice that he gave me has helped me on many, many occasions. Not just at work but in life in general. As time passes, I realize more and more, alas, what a rare thing that is and it makes me realize how lucky I was to have had the opportunity to work for him and to know him.
I know that it is immensely difficult to lose someone that you love, but I hope that you can take some solace in knowing that part of Tony lives on in our memories of him. I will not forget him. And, as far as work goes, he is unquestionably to gold standard to which no one lives up.
Un abbraccio,
Adam
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Jacque Diouf Dear Joanna.
We heard with great sadness that Tony passed away.
He was well known as a brilliant professional who successfully steered FAO’s budget process, under difficult financial conditions. Because of his friendly character and great sense of humor, he made many friends among which I am honored to be. My family join you and the children, in these times of mourning,
to pray for him. May his soul rest in peace.
Sincerely yours.
Jacques Diouf former Director-General of the Food and Agricultrue Organization of the United Nations
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Emilia Dear Joanna, ho saputo solo ora, ti abbraccio forte. Ho incontrato Tony brevemente poche volte e mi ha lasciato un bellissimo ricordo, una persona speciale, con un grande cuore, una mente brillante, un sorriso accogliente.
emilia
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Jillian Kennedy Dear Joanna,
Thank you for forwarding the Obituary for Tony as it allowed me some precious time to reflect about Tony’s life, times past, of friendship and of the beautiful relationship you shared.
I will always cherish the time we shared, albeit briefly, in Tuscany. You were both so generous and great, caring friends.
Sally, Jonathan and I were smiling with pleasure as we reminisced about the pizza oven, great meals and swimming in that lovely pool.
But that’s just a bit of the bigger picture.
My love to you, Joanna, as you adjust to a different life.Jillian
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John and Jenny Markie Dear Joanna,
Our hearts go out to you at this time. How much we admire the devotion you have given to building a new life with Tony in Victoria and caring for him. We can only guess how hard it is now going to be to develop another life alone.
Tony was a huge support to me in FAO, demanding but never under-mining and always encouraging. I shared his hopes and fears for the Organization and his belief in what we were trying to achieve in the world. Pretentious as it sounds, he believed in FAO as a servant of humanity and so did I. On a personal level we were friends.
Tony’s bravery, but also your bravery, as you both realised the implications of his illness and pressed on, has been an example to us all.
We hope that you will visit Rome and will get in touch when you do.Your friends, always,
John and Jenny
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Jill Stainforth Cara Joanna
Tony’s courageous and spirited perseverance was inspiring.
I only knew him as an ill man but my memory is of a powerful, brilliant and very amusing fellow. What wonderful times you must have had!
Sending loving condolence,
Jill
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Maurizio Cecchini Cara Giovanna,
abbiamo appena letto la Tua mail con la triste notizia. Siamo profondamente addolorati dal triste evento ed a stento riusciamo a trovare parole che Ti siano di conforto. Ricordiamo Tony come persona eccezionale, gentile, buono e dotato di un gran senso dell’humor. Che il Signore Lo abbia in gloria e Lo accolga tra le Sue braccia, come Egli merita. A te, cara Giovanna, ti giunga un forte, affettuoso abbraccio da tutti noi. Maurizio, Paola, Chiara e Diletta Cecchini
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Daphne Mellors Dear Joanna,
So very sorry to hear that Tony is no longer with us. You are in my thoughts at this sad time. May Tony rest in peace.
Daphne
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Sonia Navas Dear Joanna, Tony’s passing has touched me deeply. My thoughts go out to you, knowing how much you loved, and still love, each other. No need to tell you how much I admired Tony nor how grateful I was for his help and advice. I will keep you in my prayers. Un abbraccio affettuoso. Sonia
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John Toohey Dear Joanna,
my deepest condolences. Tony was ‘a good bloke’ – passionate about causes, committed to excellence in all he did and a fighter to the end. He’ll be missed.
John Toohey
Sydney, Australia
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alanna Holroyd Hi Joanne and family
My deepest condolence on Tony’s passing. His personally belied anything that Parkinson could throw at him. Strength, kindness and humour shone thru. It was a privilege to know him.
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Patricia Whiting Dear Joanna. It was very sad to hear of Tony’s passing. My sincere condolences to you and your family. May he rest in peace.
Un abbraccio forte
Pat
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Luciano Joanna,
My deepest and sincere condolences to you and all your family.Luciano
Toronto – Canada
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Pavone Ricorderemo sempre Tony con profondo affetto.
Ti siamo vicini in questo momento di dolore.
Un abbraccio forte
Famiglia Pavone
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Margaret Walker Dear Joanna,
My heart goes out to you at this time and my prayers are with you. Tony gave much in his life and will be remmbered with thanksgiving. Neil and I always enjoyed any time we had with him.
I am with you in spririt today and in the days to come.
Affectionately,
Margaret Walker
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Corina Marini Joanne I’m so sorry to hear the very sad news about Tony. My deepest sympathy to you and family. Corina
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Adriana Martucci Dear Joanna,
So, so sad to learn of Tony’s passing.
Our most deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Adriana and Jean.
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Joseph and Sally Baldesarra Dear Joanna
So very sorry to hear of Tony’s passing. May every cherished memory of your precious time together bring you comfort during this time of sorrow and the days ahead.
Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Joe, Sally Baldesarra
Chiara Altobello
Caledon, Ontario, Canada
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Janice Saich My deepest sympathy Joanna to you and family. He was one of the finest guys around. Tony will always be remembered.
Janice and Mario
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Nabil Gangi Dear Joanna,
I am sorry. Your grief is shared by many who Tony has touched through his gifted personality. Watching Tony working and presenting his work throughout my time in FAO Rome has been a coaching for me both professionally and personally… and I assure you I am not alone.
The last I heard from Tony was a light-hearted complaint on how disappointed in Victoria’s weather, for which I apologized whole heartily having been one of those recommending Victoria as your retirement destination.
I am sure with you and his loved ones by his side nothing would have been more peaceful and gratifying during his last days. Please accept my sincerest condolences. You are in the thoughts of many who were touched by Tony.Nabil
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Michael Johnston My dear Joanna,
Tony put up an almighty battle that would not have been possible without your unstinting, generous and loving support.
I had hoped that the battle might have taken place in Australia, in fact, in the Southern Highlands of New South Wales (Bowral, perhaps?) but it was not not be. You both made the sensible decision to take the best medical practice available for Tony’s condition – in Canada – and while I lamented the loss of our friends to Canada ( you too Joanna!) nevertheless I understood. Furthermore I appreciate the devoted attention Tony received from the Canadian medical practitioners.
I have missed you both. Tony was a great guy and I have only happy memories of my association and friendship with him.
You may recall our voyage together on Sydney Harbour in the Tawarri. What a great day!
More importantly – for me – was your hosting of a visit by us in Italy when you extended enormous hospitality to me, my friends (Derk and Kevin) and to Jillian, Sally and Jono. A lunch never to be forgotten and a culinary experience never to be matched! It enabled me to have some very meaningful discussions with Sally (my daughter) that has ensured a renewed and lasting relationship. I truly appreciated the contribution you and Tony made to this which has probably remained unknown to you both. Sally and Jono have married and I am now the proud grandfather of Harry.
Joanna you have some great friends In Australia and I hope you may see your way forward to come and visit us soon.
I will never forget Tony and I will continue to cherish my memories of him.
Thank you for looking after him so well.
Michael Johnston
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Blanche Dear Joanna – I was so sad to hear of Tony’s passing. He was such a talented person and a pleasure to be acquainted with. My heart goes out to you at this time of grief. Blanche
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Diane Pereira Dear Joanna, heartfelt condolences & you are in my thoughts. Tony’s & your spirit & courage throughout such difficult times has been astounding & an admiral example for us all.
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michel et Marie Josèphe Savini Nous sommes désolés d’apprendre la disparition prématurée de Tony. Je conserve de lui le souvenir d’un collègue aussi gentil que compétent. Nous vous prions d’accepter nos sincères condoléances
Michel Savini
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Martin and Angela Solesbury Dear Joanna, so sorry to hear of your sad news, our thoughts and prayers are with you, Martin and Angela, Folkestone, England
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Jayne Rose Dear Joanna, I am so very sorry to hear of Tony’s passing. He was a wonderful man, caring and kind, and a fantastic boss to work for, always willing to chip in and help out in times of crisis. I will never forget him and his kindness to me during a difficult time when I worked for him. God Bless him and you and all your family. Travel Safe, Dear Tony. You will be missed. Jayne
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David Nyman Truly sorry to hear the news. I worked with Tony on many projects in Rome and admired him enormously both as a friend and colleague.
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Teresa Dearest Joanna,
It was so sad to hear the loss of your dear loving husband Tony.
It was a pleasure to have worked with him and fond memories of him will always remain,
I will pray for you,
Teresa Rubini/FAO
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thalassinou maria Dear Joanna,
I was very sorry to hear the sad news that put you very much in my mind.
I remember the lovely relation you had with Tony and I do hope that the two of you had as much good timeso together, as was possible after your return to Canada.
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John Rowell My deepest condolences to Joanna and the whole family for this sad loss. I remember you both with fondness from the times you both worked in FAO.
Best regards,
John Rowell.
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Cedric Dear Joanna, I’m very sorry that you and Tony have been parted. A Roman wrote, in imperfect consolation, about memory: “And yet this [the past] is the part of our time that is sacred and set apart, put beyond the reach of all human mishaps, and removed from the dominion of Fortune, the part which is disquieted by no want, by no fear, by no attacks of disease; this can neither be troubled nor be snatched away—it is an everlasting and unanxious possession.” Cedric.
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Michael Beahan Farewell to a delightful friend and great contributor in so many fields. My main memories of Tony were at the Trade Union Training Authority in Australia where he did more than most to establish the fledgling organisation on a firm financial and administrative footing with fierce tenacity laced with gentle encouragement and good humour. I am also aware through my parliamentary career of the substantial contribution he made to FAO.
Distance has prevented a closer relationship with Tony and Joanna in recent years, but I will treasure fond memories of a beautiful man.
Margaret and I send our love and condolences to Joanna and her family.
Michael Beahan, former President of the Australian Senate.
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Yasuko.H Vicini nel dolore e nel lutto,porgiamo sentite condoglianze.
Tony e sua moglie e piccoli cani.
Riportare i ricoedi divertenti.
………triste………..triste…….
dorce moglie coraggiocon affetto
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Diana Alvarez Dear Joanna and Family,
I will remember the times I shared with Tony in true joy and spirit and know he will be remembered always as a remarkable human. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.
Yours truly,
Diana Alvarez
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Anna Lulli Dear Joanna
I’m deeply saddened to hear of Tony’s premature passing. I smile as i remember our time together as colleagues. An all round good guy – sensitive, grounded and giving. RIP Tony.
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Christine and Thomas Axmann Dear Joanna., We were so saddened to hear that your beloved Tony had passed away. He was an inspiration to those of us lucky enough to have spent time with him. He was brave and witty and charming in such an unassuming manner.
With deepest sympathy, Christine and Thomas
We truly regret that we cannot be there with you tomorrow.
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Lesley Bidlake Joanna, we are so very sorry to hear of Tony’s passing. We were honored to have met him a few times – from everyone at Trillium, we send our condolences to you & your family.
Trillium Care
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Isa Milman Dear Joanna,
I was so sad to learn of Tony’s death this morning. He stands out in my memory as a man of great gifts– humour, courage, steadfastness but a few. It was a privilege to know him and I send my deepest condolences to you and your family. May his memory always be for a blessing,
Isa Milman
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Fiona Hunter Dear Joanna,
I was so sorry to receive your message yesterday about Tony’s death. I have such great admiration for him and you in the approach taken in dealing with his illness. You are not alone in your sadness, and I hope that your good memories of Tony will see you through grieving his death.
You have both been delightful clients and if there is anything at all we can do to assist you in the coming months, please let us know.
My thoughts are with you. Fiona
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Penny Sargent My lovely little brother, I shall miss you so much. You aren’t supposed to go before your big sister.
Be at peace
My sincere condolences & love to Joanna, Alex Kingsley & their families
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Carolyn Tabarrok As neighbours we have spent many happy hours with Tony, Joanna and their extended family. Tony contributed so much to discussions with his perceptions, knowledge and humour. I shall always remember those smiling brown eyes. The last few years have been difficult but he and Joanna rose to the challenges with intelligence. Courage and their deep love of each other. He is sorely missed but warmly remembered. Carolyn
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Eva Bullard Dear Giovanna, my heart is full of sadness for you and your family. My own family and I knew Tony only for the last few years in Victoria but he will always remain in our memory as one of the best men we knew. I can only imagine the profound loss you feel, all of you who had the privilege to know him for a lifetime or many decades.
I will carry my memories of him and cherish his friendship always. Sending my love to you
Eva
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Britta Killermann Dear Joanna
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your terrible loss
Tony will remain in our hearts
Britta
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Giovanna Immucci Cara Joanna,
Siamo addolorati per la prematura scomparsa di Tony. Lo ricorderemo sempre come un uomo di grande intelligenza ed umanità. Rimangono i bei ricordi trascorsi alle alle sue dipendenze alla FAO.
Infinite condoglianze Giovanna e Aldo (Roma)
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Patricia Whiting Dear Joanna
So sad to hear of Tony’s passing. My deepest condolences to you and your family. May he rest in peace.
Un abbraccio forte.
Pat Whiting
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Maureen Matthew I will forever hold Tony in my heart as a man of courage, remarkable humor and one of the sweetest smiles I’ve ever witnessed. You have touched my life, Tony, and I’m so grateful to have known you. Joanna, you glow with loving kindness and caregiving dedication that I have so admired. Your journey with Tony’s illness has been a long journey in grief. You have taught me much about giving from the heart. The countless many who know and love you hold you in the Light during this time of loss. Love & Hugs, Maureen
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Tina My dear lady, there is truly nothing I can say that will ease your pain,but I do wish to say that I watched in amazement the love you had for each other, how hard you worked to keep your man living his life with dignity , I watched, I saw how together you supported each other and made the best of the situation everyday. May the blessings be.
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Michael Bawtree Dear Joanna,
I was so sorry to hear of Tony’s death, and send my deep sympathy. What a fighter he was! I was so happy to have been able to drop in and see you when I was in Victoria in 2011. All strength and blessings.
Love,
Michael
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Carol Ward Those we love remain with us, for love itself lives on.
And cherished memories never fade because a loved ones gone.
Those we love can never be more than a thought apart.
For as long as there is memory they will live on in the heart.Thinking of you Joanna.
Carol.
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James I don’t believe that Tony would want us to spend too much time being sad. Despite the challenges he faced he was always positive and upbeat. We are all better for having known him.
James D
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Giuseppe e Helene Cararissima Joanna
Partecipiamo commossi all’ inaspettata perdita del carissimo Tony, e condividiamo con tristezza la tua pena sperando che il nostro sostegno morale possa alleviarla anche solo per un’ istante.
Con affetto. Giuseppe e Helene
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Annette and Al van Mil Joanna,
Our heartfelt condolences go out to you and to Tony’s family. What a loss.
We did not have the opportunity to know Tony that well, but on the occasions that we did meet, I could see the love he had for you, the connection and respect.
I hope that the family and friends that are surrounding you, give you strength,comfort and love to carry you through this time. Please know that your friends in Toronto are praying for you and sending love through the airways.
Hopefully we can give you hugs in person soon.
Xoxoxo Annette and Al
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Joe DeSimone & family Dear Joanna, I would like to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. Tony was an amazing person and I fondly remember our visit with you both in Rome. Extend my sentiments to your mother and brother and may you find solace in knowing that Tony was loved by all. Condolences from my family, Marie, Maddalena, Jamee, Tracie and Ryan.
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Elisa Miccinilli Cara Joanna,
Non so se ti ricordi di me, abbiamo lavorato insieme alla FAO al computer training prima che tu e Tony vi spostaste in Canada. Mi dispiace tantissimo per Tony che era un uomo dolce e premuroso. Sono certa che dovunque lui sia non dimenticherá mai il tuo sorriso e i tuoi occhi pieni d’amore.
Ti mando un abbraccio forte.
Elisa
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Vera Christ It was very sad to hear the news. I had only been with him Friday and though he was weaker than normal and needed assistance with everything . He loved his deserts and struggled to get the last raspberry in the bowl, happily successful as he played the most beautiful opera loudly and it wafted down the halls where I was working. Good bye Tony. My condolences to you my dear sweet shiny Joanna and may you know how your devotion to Tony was impeccable and your love shone on to inspire .
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Patricia Dear Joanna, dear family and friends of Tony,
I have met and worked with Tony long ago and he was an amazing person. He was gentle and respectful to all, no matter the grade, the sex and the nationality. He was a wonderful speaker and a great manager. My condolences to you, Joanna, your children. R.I.P. Tony, you inspired many.
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renee evans So very sorry to hear this sad news. My condolences to joanna and family
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Nella Di Maio Dear Joanne, I’m so sorry to hear of Tony’s passing, he was such a wonderful person. Please accept our deepest condolences. Ti siamo vicini, baci!
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marina zanetti Carissima Giovanna,
ho appena appreso la notizia della morte di Tony. Mi dispiace moltissimo, era una persona eccezionale, piena di humor e gentilezza. Ti sono vicina in questo trieste momento e ti abbraccio forte forte. Con tanto affetto, Marina
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Ugolotti Oscar and Enrica We send you our deepest condolences in memory of the good times we had together when you were in Italy.
Oscar and Enrica.
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Lucia Travertino Grande Chere Joanna je t’adresse mes sinceres condoleances. Un gros bisou Lucia
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Nidia Crivellaro Ciao Joanna,
Con grande dolore ho saputo di Tony da Nella. Pensa che l’ho incontrata a Testaccio venerdì sera e le ho chiesto se aveva vostre notizie mi detto di no e poi lunedì mi ha scritto che Tony non c’era piú. È stato uno shock tremendo, anche se sapevamo che sarebbe successo. Accetta le mie piú sentite condoglianze e sappi che ti sono molto vicina. Ti voglio bene un bacione grande, grande.
Nidia
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Rosemary Petrucci Dear Joanna, I’m so very sad to hear of Tony’s passing. He was a wonderful person and always had something nice to say and a smile for his fellow colleagues and friends. I remember him with such fondness. Heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Rosemary (FAO), Rome, Italy
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Lena Roccasalvo We are at a loss for words during this sorrowful time. Please know that our family is thinking of you. Tony will always be within your heart and the many others that loved him and as close as a beautiful memory.
Lena, Peter Tamara and Daniel Roccasalvo
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Gaynor, Lara, & Anna Dear Joanna,
Its with great great sadness that we hear about Tony’s passing !!
He was such a wonderful person with an absolutely incredable sense of humour !!
Tony you will be sorely missed by all !!
A huge hug Joanna and sincere condolences to all family and relatives.Gaynor, Lara & Anna xxxx
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Giulia Genovese Dear Joanna, I am so sorry to learn of Tony’s passing. He is now an angel. Sincere condolescence to you and all your family.
Lots of love,
Giulia Genovese from Rome, Italy
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Tony and Val Green Dear Joañna
We are so sad to hear of the death of Tony who was our best man at our wedding 46 years ago. We have fond memories of his acute sense of humour and friendship. We are thinking of you, Joanna, at this sad time.Tony and Val
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Lillian Tomorad Cesarec Dear Joanna,
Our deepest condolences to you and the family. Dear Tony will live forever in our harts.
Lillian and George
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Elaine Joanna,
Tony is now free from his illness. You were by his side to help, organize, love, and keep him safe. I wish I was there with you.
Love,
Elaine
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Elvira Dear Joanne, Tony will continued to be loved he was a wonderful person. I send you a big tight hug please accept my condolences
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Chris perreault I didn’t work with Tony very long before he left FAO, but I’ll never forget his incredibly sharp mind, sense of humor and above all, warmth. I feel honored that I had the opportunity to work for him, even if only briefly.
Chris
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Angelica Abrina Dear Joanna, we will always fondly remember Tony – a good man with a big heart. Angelica
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Carmelo Lombardi Ciao Giovanna, sono addoloratissimo per la brutta notizia. Ho pregato per Tony che Dio lo accolga in Cielo e per te che possa trovare le energie per superare questo momento tristissimo. Ti abbraccio, Carmelo Lombardi
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Charles So very sad to hear your news of Tony’s passing.
My remembrance of his unbounded vitality and wit remain.
You are very much in my prayers.
Charles J.
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Cathy Hayes Dear Joanna, it is with great sadness that we learned of Tony’s passing. Our deepest sympathy to you and all your family. Cathy Hayes and family, Dublin, Ireland.
Joanna, i am sorry to read this per chance. You were the one who helped me find our apartment in via tomasso da celano. Tony was a lovely man, indeed. Sincere condolences to you and your family.
Joanna