Born October 24, 1977 in Glasgow, Scotland, passed away peacefully on October 9, 2014 in Victoria, BC. Predeceased by his father, Jim on March 30, 2014. Lovingly remembered by his wife, Jo-Anne; mother, Helen; sister, Debbie (Scott); nieces, Amanda and Kendyll as well as countless friends and family. A Memorial Service will be held at Royal Victoria Yacht Club, 3475 Ripon Rd., Victoria, BC on Saturday, October 18, 2014 at 3:00pm.
McCall Bros. Funeral Home
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Arnold Vezza
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Nancy and Gord Stuart Gary was such a fighter to the end. We send heartfelt condolences to sustain you through this difficult time. He is now at peace with his Dad and you are left to carry on that spirit of determination that Gary had. May God bless you all. Love, Nancy and Gord
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Denise Kilner Dear Helen and Deborah,
I am so shocked to learn of Gary’s death. On reading the tributes, I deduce that he has been very brave in the face of suffering and adversity. As we have lost contact for many years, my memories of him are as a wee child. Deborah, of course being a friend of Fionas, was often on a play date at our house. I had no idea that Jim left you this year. I am truly sorry you have had such a sorrowful time. I too believe they are reunited, and enjoying great peace. It is you (the family) Deborah and Gary’s who will be reeling from the void and pain. I cannot imagine what it feels like to lose a child, and I know it’s not the first!! From the wonderful tributes I have read, you must take some solace in the knowledge that so many people held your son in high regard and great affection and also share your grief. My daughters join me in sending our very very sincere condolences. God Bless. Denise Kilner.
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Laura We miss you everyday Gary. There’s a huge space where your laugh and comments used to fill the room. I miss everything having you as a friend meant. Thank you for being my “big brother” for 18 years. Thank you for being the best godfather my son could hope for. Thank you for fighting as hard as you did and for never giving up so that we got more time with you. We created fantastic memories. Thank you for sending us the perfect sign that you are watching over us now. We love you.
Laura and Dylan. xo
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Iain McIntosh Dear Helen and Jo-Anne, I have been thinking about you and your family every day since I read that Gary had passed away. The thing I remember most about Gary’s battle was his positive outlook. He always seemed so cheerful and grateful every time I saw him. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Debbie Adams Today October 24 th would have been your birthday❤️. Your journey here is done, so where ever you are I hope you are celebrating this day as you are free. You haven’t had a birthday in 8 years where you haven’t been sick, so hope you enjoy this one. We miss you Gary especially today, wish we could be together.
Love Deb
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Doug & Merville Hall Dear Helen and Joanne,
We are truly sorry to hear of your further loss. A child is never supposed to pass before his parent. This is indeed a shock and we pray for God’s mercy and grace at this time and the following year.
May His peace be with you knowing that Jim is comforting him.
God Bless you and the family,
Merville & Doug Hall, Marriage Encounter 1980’s
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Michael Sinclair I don’t know what to say to truly express my feelings. Gary was such a ball of energy and anyone who was touched by him will surely miss that spark and humour.
God speed.
Much love from Michael and family.
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Bev & John McInerney Dear Helen & family: 2014 has been a very difficult year for you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Bev & John McInerney
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Giovanna Greco Helen and Debbie,
Our deepest condolences for your loss.
Remember the good times you had with him and that will bring you some comfort.
He will be missed and I still remember his warm smile and joy for life when he was a young boy at St Pat’s.You are in our prayers.
Giovanna and Dominic Greco
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Jim and Eileen Kearney Please accept our condolences! Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. May God help you through this sad and difficult time .
Sincerely ,
Jimmy and Eileen and family
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Edward & Georgina Camilleri Dear Helen, Joanne and Debbie,
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Garry fought a long courageous battle. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Edward & Georgina Camilleri
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Alex and Ron Fernandez Dear Helen, Jo-Anne, Debbie & families
Our deep-felt condolences and thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult of times and although there is little that will dull your deep loss and pain at this time, it is our belief that your dear Gary and Jim have returned to God and are both reunited with Him and each other in the Heavenly home of Joys un-ending that was prepared for them from the very beginning.
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Pete Edwards Rest in peace Gary. I never knew you well after elementary school but I’ll always remember you.
See you on the other side. My condolences to your family.
Pete
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mike kinahan and family Dear Helen,
We are sorry to see that Gary has died. As well as losing Jimmy in March, this can’t have been an easy year for you. Our prayers are with you.
Mike and Sharon Kinahan
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Danielle Epp (Protti) I am at a loss for what to say. I will always remember Gary’s warm smile and sense of humor when I’d go over to the Fitzpatrick house as a teenager. I am holding Mrs. Fitzpatrick, Jo Anne and Debbie very close to my heart these days. Sending all my love your way.
Danielle
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Sean Johnson Debbie, my thoughts are with you and your family. Sean, Karen, Leah and Reid Johnson
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Ashleigh and Tyler Gary, we are so sad that you have left us in body. We know that you are here with us in spirit. When we close our eyes we can instantly remember your face, laughing out loud and joking like you always did. You will forever be with us, in our hearts.
Thank you for teaching us to never give up. Even in our hardest days we knew that you were pushing forward, and it gave us strength. This is a lesson that we will never forget.
Thank you for all of the wonderful times we shared. Thank you for the warmth you always showed us, transmitted through your hugs, your smile, and your loving demeanor. Thank you for coming into our lives and showing us the world through Gary’s eyes. We love you so much. xoxo
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Mark Redchurch Helen, Jo-Anne, Debbie & families,
I was saddened to hear about Gary. Over the years, and most especially when listening to Jim talk about Gary’s courage, I’ve been impressed with Gary’s strength and resilience in overcoming every obstacle placed in front of him. Our deepest sympathies to you all.
Mark Redchurch and family
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Ken Wilson MD, BC Cancer Agency Gary was a very courageous young man whose life was inexplicably shortened. It was a privilege to look after him and his family. Condolences also for the loss of his father.
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Brenda Quin Helen, Debbie and Jo-anne and family
You have been on my mind for days and I have been trying to find the words to properly express my sympathy for you. I understand your loss and know what a difficult time it is for all of you. It is a huge relief to know that Gary is no longer in pain or suffering and that Jim is showing him around his new found peace. Hugs to you all.
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Alanna and Bill Helen, Jo-Anne, Debbie , Scott, Amanda and Kendyll
There are no words to express the heart-break that is felt with the passing of Gary.
An amazing man, a wonderful loving husband , son, brother and uncle.; a courageous soul who made his family and friends so very proud.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May God bring you comfort and peace .
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Liz and Bill Wharf Helen and Debbie,
We were very sad to hear of Gary’s passing. We have fond memories of him back in the days of St.Pat’s, and know you will miss him so much. Along with Teresa and Dave we send our condolences and will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
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Lilo & Anna Jo-Anne and Helen
The news that Gary has passed away came as true shock and a deep sadness to us. Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for Gary and the loved ones he’s left behind. I (Lilo) have had the privilege to be Gary and Jo-Anne’s wedding photographer, and as result, I came to know Gary a great deal. The memories I have about Gary are truly a terrific and compassionate human being who loved life, respected others and passionately loved his then girl friend Jo-Aanne. Gary will always be in our memories, Lilo (wedding photographer).
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Gail Wallace Gary showed his courage and also his sense of humour even in Social Studies class
at St. Andrew’s. He will have a fond reunion with his father. May the peace of
God and the strength of your faith sustain each of the family in your grief journey.
I shall be thinking of Debbie and Helen and holding you in my thoughts and prayers
Sincerely, Gail Wallace ( former teacher at St Andrew’s)
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Debbra Carlow, Aldo & Tallia We are so sorry for your loss. May God bless your family with peace in your heart. We pray for you now and always.
Take care of each other,
Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Debbra (Carlow), Aldo & Tallia
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Suzannah Goldsack My heart is very heavy with the loss of your beautiful son who taught us all what courage and grace were.
He taught us what fun was as well and that is something we keep in our hearts forever.
Sue Goldsack
St. Andrews High School
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Calvin and Sandy Jones Dear Helen, Jo-Anne and Debbie:
Words cannot express the sorrow we feel. Gary was an inspiration and a fighter. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cal and Sandy
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Jane Henson Deb and Scott, Joanne and Helen,
We are so saddened by the news of Gary’s passing. I remember our conversations at the rec centre with fondness; he was so positive, so vibrant, so determined…. so loved by his family.
Sending you all so much love during this very difficult time.
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Debbie Adams My heart is heavy with sadness for us as you are no longer with us. You truly fought this disease with such strength, surgery after surgery, treatment after treatment. To say you were brave is an understatement, I am so proud of you Gary. I only wished we could have made you better and kept you with us. I know you could hear all of us around you the evening you passed, you found what little strength you had left in you to let us know that you knew we were there. Amanda and Kendyll are so sad, and confused, but they are both so glad you woke briefly and waved to them❤️, thank you.
I hope you have found dad and are in that place your dreams took you to while you slept in hospital. You told me you were dreaming of walking, and that you were no longer sick. It’s sounds beautiful, and for your sake I am glad you are free.
We will miss you more that we can say.
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Anne Graves Joanne and Helen,
I am so sorry to hear this news. Gary was an inspiration to Len and to me – such a gentle young soul will be missed by all who knew him. My heart goes out to you both and all your family.
Kindest regards,
Anne Graves
My deepest condolences on Gary’s passing. What a fighter, and just a really good person. Please stay strong,and know our prayers and thoughts are with you
Arnold and Olivia Vezza